Mr. P's
Corner

Every
month, our Director of Leadershp Planning and Development,
Robert L. Pruitt II, contributes an article to our NSLC
Alumni.
Who’s
In Your Inner Circle
One of many
mistakes I’ve made throughout my life is giving some people
more access to my life than I should have. The lesson for me
is to understand that people come into our lives for a
“reason,” “season,” or a “lifetime.” It’s critical to
understand what role people play in our lives. Not every
acquaintance should become a friendship; or every friendship a
best friend; or every best friend a love interest; Nor every
love interest a marriage. We each have unique gifts which are
to be nurtured and protected. Sharing too much or not enough
of ourselves can hinder our growth and development.
Give some thought to the
people who are in your life. What role do they play? For
example, an enemy can teach you a lot about yourself if you
are open to examining the feedback they provide. A new friend
can enter your life during a period of transition like the
death of a loved one, loss of a job or determining what major
to declare and then they exit-sometimes for good. Your best
friend from elementary school can continuously help to shape
your life and supporting your dreams even when you are
separated by distance or haven’t spoken in a while.
As an effective leader,
you must understand your inner circle, comprised of a cadre of
trustworthy individuals, that know the most about your
desires, secrets, fears and aspirations. This unique support
system may be comprised of people like a track coach who helps
to improve your running, throwing or jumping abilities (a
reason person); an old boyfriend/girlfriend who meant the
world to you as you moved through high school (a season
person); and a parent who works daily to provide your basic
needs (a lifetime person).
Be careful when creating
your inner circle! Choose only those persons committed to your
vision and have your best interest at heart. You are a gift,
not better than or less than anyone else in the world. You are
simply valuable and significant and you deserve to have the
best nurture your development.
Who’s in your inner
circle? Whose inner circle are you in?
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We've announced our dates and
locations for Summer 2008.
This summer the NSLC will be
holding 14 different career-focused leadership conferences,
including our new Sports and Entertainment Management
Program in New York. Conferences will also be held
in Washington, DC and San Francisco, CA.
Click on our logo to visit
the NSLC Homepage to learn all about our 2008 programs.